Your friends use words that no textbook teaches: "hang out", "no worries", "my bad". These are the words of real friendship. You can learn them without turning the chat into a lesson.
Notice the new word
When you hear a word twice, it is probably useful.
We can hang out on Sunday.
Ask in the chat
Ask one short question, then continue.
What does "hang out" mean? Just spend time?
Repeat it back
Use the word in your next message.
Yes, let us hang out!
Write it in your phone
One word, one example. Not a long list.
hang out — spend time together
Do not ask about every word
Two or three questions a week is enough. Too many turns a friend into a teacher.
Give something back
Teach them a word from your language, or from your work. Learning goes both ways.
Words to remember
- notice — to see or hear something
- probably — very likely
- example — one case that shows the meaning
- both ways — in two directions
Questions & answers
Q: Is it rude to ask about words?
No, if you ask quickly and then return to the conversation.
Q: Should I write the words down immediately?
Not in the middle of a chat. Note them after, or ask your friend to send the word.
Q: Are slang words safe to use?
Use them with friends, not in a job interview. Ask, "Is this polite?" if you are unsure.
Q: What if I use a word wrongly?
Your friend will smile and correct you. That is a free lesson.
Q: How many words can I learn this way?
Two or three a week. In a year, that is a hundred real words.